Dating
November 16, 2011
I heard a boy saying that he was shy and good-looking. He was saying the bad looking boys who are not shy attract girls. That made me think not about looks, but about shyness. It is not that only men are shy. Women may be shyer. Quiz yourself if you are looking in the wrong direction to find out why you are not getting a good date?
You may be thinking about various reasons and trying to get more tips from friends about how to get a good date. Is your shyness not the cause? Please quiz yourself now. Are you comfortable approaching any person of opposite sex? Can you confidently walk towards a man /woman and introduce yourself? Can you give physical signals indicating your interest? Or you don't raise your eyes if you like someone?
What if somebody approaches you? Will you go in easy conversation or keep quiet thinking what to say- tongue-tied? Do you feel confident about yourself? How do you rate your personality? If you are shy with persons of opposite sex, did you try to find out the reason? Have you discussed with friends? Are your friends also shy or confident and easy going? Did you ask for any tip about how to stop being shy?
Many of us are shy and that makes us miss lot of opportunities to meet persons of opposite sex and develop friendship. Any person who is shy will have difficulty getting a date. You have to break the shyness and talk. Nothing will happen except the best. The worst that can happen is a no. But that happens with all of us. Why not stop being shy and win hearts?
Single Parent Dating
September 5, 2011
I have a friend whoever is a single mom to three boys all under the age of10. In the last 2 years she has dated 4 men whoever she fell in love with quickly and made them part of her children's lives. The boys bonded to each one and then suffered when the relationships ended. I was wondering if there are any good studies or books on the long-term effects of this pattern on the children. After looking around, I learned — Nothing good comes of that. Eventually the kids will refuse to get close to anyone. It really messes with their heads. I think eventually they will all start acting out their pain. You have to remember, every time one of those guys leaves her the children feel rejection. It's hard to build confindence when you feel like you're the reason no one will stay. Sadly, a lot of women are very selfish and put their own needs ahead of the childrens.
Friends Dating
August 13, 2011
Is it possible that a guy and girl who like each other can be friends for a long time before either of them tells the other how they feel or start dating. I was so glad to find this — Uh, yes, definitely. I see that happen a lot. People usually start off as friends before they date anyway.
Get My Man Back
August 11, 2011
I am a virgo woman and I was dating an Aries man. . I want him back and I'm not sure how to make that happen. How can I get my aries man back. After speaking to others on the web, I found the answer. Astrology is non sense. . Try giving us some actual useful information??
Dating
August 5, 2011
When you begin dating, try to know what you want from your dating partner. Let me make this clearer. All of us date for different reasons. Sometimes theses reasons are unknown to our conscious mind. With application of thought and reflection, we can find out what we want from our dating partner.
You may be looking for following and some other needs to be fulfilled by your dating partner. They are primary, and there may be many secondary reasons. Let us discuss them.
Every one is dating – I want to date and have a partner because everyone is doing that. I am happy otherwise and can continue without a partner happily for many more years. But I want a partner because everyone is having one.
Physical needs – I need a partner primary for my physical needs. I need a biological partner.
Companion and friend- I want a friend whoever will be with me through pain and pleasures of my life.
Fulfillment- I feel unfulfilled. I want fulfilled. I am not able to define this vacuum but I think that a partner will do it.
I want my own – I want to have someone y very own. In front of whoever I can laugh and cry. Who will support me through life and whom I will support like wise? I want to walk watching the sunset hand in hand with my beloved.
I want love – I need love and pampering. I never got it in my childhood. I need it badly. I want someone whoever will treat me gently and give me love.
There may be many other wants that one desires the dating partner to fulfill. Once you know what precisely you want from your dating partner your choice becomes narrowed down and you will get better results. Knowing about our requirement always helps in in satisfying our needs.
